Lennox's Big Boy Bed and Help from Super Nanny

Well... Since Lennox was climbing out of his crib faster then we could shut the door on his room, I figure its time for a Big Boy Bed. Xzavier was a little older when we moved him and he had been going to daycare, where he had to nap on a cot and could only get off when his name was called so needless to say his transition was quite easy. Until just recently he wouldn't even get out of bed in the morning until you went and got him.

Things haven't been so easy with Lennox. He loves running around like a crazy man, jumping off his bed, messing with Xzavier, playing with toys or running out of the room. Night after night we would stand at the door and watch the monitor. Out of bed... First Offense, hug kiss and say goodnight. Second Offense, hug kiss an say goodnight again. Third and on, put him back in bed saying nothing, cover up, hand him "Big Bear" and walk away. Some nights I felt like we would go in about a hundred times... Nap time on the other hand is great. I read him a book, say night night, and he lays right down. Why, Why, Why. Well as usual when I have an issue with parenting, I turn to "Super Nanny". Thank Goodness I have all episodes on Hulu and I can watch and rewatch episodes that deal with my specific issue. Jo Jo suggested the technique I was using (which I learned from the show previously) and also to shorten his nap (which I have now done). Another issue that the show has helped me with is Time Out. I was having a hard time with Lennox taking me seriously but now I got it down. First, Get down to his level and in a low toned voice tell him what he did wrong then take him to his time out area (the time out rug in my house) and tell him he is to stay there until Mommy comes and gets him. When his time is up (one min for every year of age) tell him again why he was in time out and make him say "Sorry" and give a hug. Once again Jo Jo is a Genius. The technique works like a charm. Its even got him to now stay in his dinner chair :) :) The show also helps me when I feel like my routine is out of whack or if the kids are starting to become unruly and I just need to know I'm not the only one...

Honestly my kids are really good and I shouldn't complain but this is the reason why small things seem so big. I'm blessed or you could say spoiled by not having to deal with really bad situations. If you are having trouble dealing with a child or just going through "growing pain" in your life I suggest watching some "Super Nanny" and putting some of her discipline or routine techniques to work.

Although Lennox has been sleeping on the floor, most nights, I know its only a matter of time until he understands and stays in his bed. This is just another story to tell at his wedding :)

What a Crazy Guy!! Found Passed out upside down!

Cloth Diapers

Since quitting my job, to stay at home with the kids, my husbands income has needed to be stretched much farther then before. It has become my job, as the household shopper, to make sure that we are ALWAYS getting the most for our buck. I'm becoming quite the coupon clipper and I'm slowly mastering the art or double and even triple deals but even with all that saving we needed to find somewhere else to cut the budget and cloth diapers seemed like a great idea considering the amt of money we were spending, especially having two kids in diapers. I had no idea where to even start when it came to this subject so I wanted to post this blog with all the research and trial and error I've been through to help others thinking about going this route.

My first step was to ask around and find out just how much work this was going to be and exactly how other people felt about using and cleaning cloth diapers. I was surprised to find out that it wasn't as bad as I originally thought. Using a disposable insert made the job much easier and not as messy as I feared so I was excited to start my search and get going on my new venture.

I found a lot of used diapers on ebay for a great price and after researching the best type for my needs and family I chose FuzziBunz Onesize Elite Diapers. These are made of a soft fleece inside and waterproof PUL on the outside. It has a pocket inside where I can fit an absorbent pad. I also found that using a Viva Paper Towel as my disposable liner was going to save me a lot of money too and it works great when cleaning a soiled diaper. (I just dump the waste in the toilet and toss the liner in the trash). For my infant I was nervous that he was still a little small for even the smallest setting on the snaps so I use a Flour Sack Towel (found at Walmart in the Kitchen section), also come in organic, as an additional "soaker". I watched a bunch of Youtube Videos to learn how to make an "Origami Fold for a flat diaper". This is the best one I found, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-cuAfnBwMU.  This additional wrap also really helps with leaks since his poo is still quite runny.

Diapers Stuffed and Ready to Go

Waterproof PUL and Snaps for Multiple Sizes around the waist and around the legs.

Soft Fleece and Removable, Resizable Elastic around each leg makes for a perfect fit.

Soaker Insert Pad

Viva Paper Towel as a Disposable Insert

Cute, Dry, Happy Baby. Make sure to tuck in all fabric to avoid leaks.

My last question was "What do you do with the dirty diapers between washes?". Some people said to put them in a trash can with a lid and others to soak them in a wet bucket with water covering them. These did not sound like a good way for me, the wet bucket would definitely end up being dumped by my two yr old and the closed trash can just sounded too stinky. The best was for us has been to rinse the diaper and inner pad in the sink with cold water right away and place them in a bucket that I keep on the counter. Smell has been at a minimum and it gives me plenty of time to get a full load together before washing.

Washing; My diapers came with washing instructions but I also did a lot of reading on removing stains and smell. First I run the load through a cold rinse cycle (no soap), then a wash load on Hot with All Free Clear Detergent. Be sure to use only a small amt since soap buildup will mess up your diapers absorbency and the soap buildup also causes your diapers to smell. After the wash cycle I run the diapers again through a cold rinse but I also add a 1/4 cup of White Distilled Vinegar to help cut down on soap buildup. *NO fabric softener, it will take all absorbency out of your diapers. Make sure even your detergent doesn't have softener (like Dreft).

Dying; I dry on low heat. *NO fabric softener. Hang dry in the sun once a month to help bleach out stains. I have found that the sun is a great way to stain fight these diapers since I don't want to be using bleach on something so close to my babies skin (and such a sensitive area).

After washing and dying I always fold and stuff my diapers so they are ready to go when I need to change someone. I keep all my, prefolded, Flour Sacks and, prestuffed, diapers in a basket next to my changing station.


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I hope this helped anyone considering cloth diapering. Please contact me with any questions you might have... Happy Diapering!